If your loved one has changed his or her behavior significantly, appears to always be happy and talkative, is continuously active, has lost his appetite, or exhibits signs of nervousness and rapid eye movement, you might be observing a meth user. While it is generally agreed that early intervention has the best odds of success when treating a crystal meth abuser, you should never attempt to intervene or confront a user while he is high. However, if you can talk to your loved one when he or she is not high, your support can be invaluable in helping this user recognize that he or she has a drug problem. This can be the first step to getting your loved one into a drug treatment program.
When it comes to crystal meth abuse, a person is rarely able to stop using on his or her own. No level of willpower seems to be sufficient to fight the highly addictive nature of methamphetamine. For this reason, it is important that you be persistent in your efforts to get your loved one into a treatment program. Family member support is considered a very important component to successful drug treatment.
You have made a great deal of progress in treating meth addiction if you can get your loved one to not only recognize that he or she has a drug problem but also to accept treatment. The next step is to detoxify the user. This is the process of eliminating the drug from his system. This stage of treatment can take longer with meth than with other drugs because of the staying power of meth. Additionally, more of the drug gets into the user’s brain than with other drugs. The detox process should take place under medical care to ensure safety. This step is critical, because as long as there is meth in the user’s system, he will be craving the drug. This is the primary reason that most users are unable to quit on their own.
Once detoxified, the real drug treatment can begin. For best success, it is recommended that the drug abuser enter a residential rehab facility for several weeks in order to have the structure and support that will be necessary to escape the clutches of meth. Current research indicates that the most effective treatments for addiction to methamphetamine include behavior modification therapy to help the patient modify thinking, expectations, and coping skills for dealing with the stresses of daily life. There is no doubt that recovering from meth addiction is challenging, but it is not impossible.
You have already selected the people who love and care about your husband to participate with you in this intervention. It is important to have people who your husband respects as part of the team in order to penetrate the denial and barriers that he is likely to put up. If his alcohol use has indeed impacted his ability to work, you might consider asking someone he respects at work to be part of the alcoholism intervention team.
After research and careful planning, you are preparing for the event with the assistance of an interventionist who has told you that the most successful interventions are the ones that are well planned, tightly controlled, and rehearsed. The interventionist has also stressed the importance of the intervention letter that each participant is to write. These letters become the script for alcohol interventions.
Each participant should prepare their own intervention letter. The process of writing these letters can be very difficult, but at the same time they give each person a voice at the intervention. It is important that the letters not be judgmental, derogatory, or place blame. At the same time, they should be personal and as specific as possible. For example, you should not generalize and say “You are always passed out on the sofa when I come to visit”, but rather be specific and say something like “When I came to visit you last Tuesday, you had passed out and I couldn’t wake you.”
Each author reads his or her letter aloud during an alcoholism intervention. The close of each letter should emphasize how much you love and care about this person and how concerned you are about his health and wellbeing. You then request that the alcoholic agree to accept the help that is being offered to him that day in the form of treatment for his drinking problem. The objective is to get them to enter treatment immediately. If the intervention letters are compelling enough, your script will have a happy ending when your husband enters a treatment facility.